“If only I …”
Have you ever felt like life would be better if you had taken a different path?
Yes, sometimes I do. Single of us at least one experienced this in our lifetime. If you say, you never ever regretted something that would be interesting things to learn, or maybe you fake your feelings. Regret is a pervasive and common emotion. Life must go on no matter what and you can’t do anything about it. Instead of stuck at repentance, learn to accept the reality, and sometimes we have to learn to let it goes its own ways. Because each decision we made, surely taught you something even just one thing but still counts. Take it as life’s experience as a lesson learns in life. Life will be so boring if everything goes on as planned. Sometimes I do feel the same with the question “WHAT IF” but on the other side part of me thinking at least I know how to deal with all of these things in the future and it’s only made us stronger. I come in point to think of “What can I learn from this experience?” and “How can I do better next time?”
“When you find gratitude for what you learned, growth happens.”
Who knows what the future will hold us? Who knows what will happen tomorrow or in the next second of us? That’s life. So, live to the fullest of every second of us. Live our life likes there is no tomorrow. Do what makes you feel happy today. Say whatever you wanna say. Just so by the end of the day, you regret NOTHING. NOTHING will hold you back at everything you did at your best.
And remember, it’s ok to cry, to make a wrong choice, to make a fault step, to experience the unstoppable pain because we’re human beings. We aren’t a robot. It’s ok to linger on those feelings of regret. And always remember to do what makes you happy and embrace all challenges. Because by the end of the day, you only have YOU.
